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Is Retail Therapy Real?

Is Retail Therapy Real?

Written by
Abbie Dawson
Published

March 6, 2023

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Latest research

Lots of us find treating ourselves therapeutic. But is ‘retail therapy’ a real thing?

At Startle, we’re huge fans of retail. Buying, browsing and everything in between - the industry is so important. 

If you’ve gone shopping when you’re feeling sad or stressed - you’re not alone. You might have purchased that new top you’ve wanted for ages, or treated yourself to an overpriced latte, and immediately felt better. But why is this? 

What is retail therapy?

The idea of retail therapy has been around for decades. It’s defined as “the act of buying special things for yourself in order to feel better when you are unhappy”. The phrase was first used in the 1980s in the Chicago Tribune newspaper on Christmas Eve, 1986: “We’ve become a nation measuring out our lives in shopping bags and nursing our psychic ills through retail therapy.”

In a 2011 study, 407 adults were involved in 3 different experiments to do with retail therapy. The study showed that unplanned shopping seems to relieve bad moods, and doesn’t usually involve negative effects such as buyer’s remorse or guilt. Claire Brummel, an expert in human behaviour, says:

“Shopping has a surface-level benefit, rather than being something that is really going to fulfil our needs. More importantly, because retail therapy does not properly fulfil our needs, it just masks or satiates it temporarily, it is very easy for the behaviour to become a habit.”

So if it’s not a long term solution, why do so many of us take part? 

Emotional expression

The act of purchasing an item can trigger a feeling that can distract us from the sadness we’re experiencing. Anticipating the possibility of a treat or reward releases a hormone called dopamine in your brain, creating a positive response. So, on the surface level, retail therapy can literally alter our mood. 

If your sadness is linked to low self esteem, purchasing items that could be considered ‘cool’ or ‘attractive’ might be a method you use to feel better. This is a tool which is used in marketing frequently - the suggestion that their products will solve your problems, and buying one more thing will help how you feel. 

Distraction

If you’re feeling down, getting out of the house to go shopping, or even just scrolling through online stores, can provide a valuable shift in focus. 

Sometimes all we need is something else for our brain to focus on - the brightly lit displays can be a welcome distraction. 

Retail therapy can be used to draw our attention away from emotions that we find uncomfortable. So, when we’re feeling sad or frustrated, we might buy items to substitute those feelings with different ones by making a purchase, for example excitement. 

Control

Feelings of sadness, stress or anxiety are often rooted in feelings of powerlessness. The authors of a 2013 study suggest that retail therapy offers a sense of control that counteracts these feelings. 

Choosing to make a purchase (or not to make a purchase) helps people feel more empowered.

"In those moments when we feel helpless to change a situation, retail therapy can help us feel that we at least have a hold on at least one concrete outcome. It can remind us that we are still able to create some pleasure for ourselves in the midst of the challenges we are facing,"

-Claire Brummel

Connection

If you’re taking part in some physical retail therapy, it can be a great opportunity to reconnect with those around us. Sadness can be a very isolating feeling, and meeting up with friends or family to head to the shops can provide an excuse to get talking. Even if you’re doing it alone, you are amongst people and can feel a connection to society. 

The perfect store environment can be the setting for much-needed social connections. 

Things to remember

Although retail therapy might be real in some ways, it’s important to remember that it’s not a replacement for professional help, and can have some dark sides. 

Using shopping as a coping mechanism can be a slippery slope into possible money issues. So although it can provide an innocent and temporary solution to low moods, it can’t tackle the root of the problem. 

Charities like Samaritans are there to help if you’re feeling low, and the National Debtline is there if you need financial advice.

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Is Retail Therapy Real?

Abbie Dawson

With a degree in Marketing and a Marketing Week Mini MBA in Marketing, Abbie has always had a goal of working with a brand with music in its DNA. Enter: Startle. She is in charge of our marketing activity, making sure to spread the word of Startle to as many brands as possible. When Abbie’s not working, you'll find her vinyl shopping to add to her collection or in the gym picking up heavy things or making enemies with a punching bag.

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